It’s not easy to become a multiple sclerosis hero

Multiple Sclerosis heroes come in all shapes and sizes. You normally can’t pick them out from the people standing in line at the grocery store or from those seated in a restaurant…but they are there. MS heroes are those amazing people who charge into battle when they have every right to hide under the covers. They don’t fit into any particular mold, wear a noticeable badge of honor or win any bravery awards. But brave…oh, they are!!!

It’s not easy to become a multiple sclerosis hero. You can’t wish yourself to be one just because you want to be one or simply slap a label on your forehead that says “Look at me, I’m an MS hero.” You can’t gain such a title by merely blogging about it, dreaming about, or talking about it.

You become one by staying in the fight and hanging in there even when you’re shaking in your boots. You hang on through the hard times as you learn to cope with the constant changes, through the emotional rollercoaster you find yourself riding, and even through the struggle of dealing with people who disappoint you.

Part of becoming a hero is standing up (even if only on the inside) when terrible things happen and choosing to push through the hard times while holding your head up high as the tears are flowing. Yes, heroes cry. They fall, tremble, get fearful, worry, hurt…but they don’t give up!

A Multiple Sclerosis hero is…
someone who wakes up in the morning feeling terribly awful but chooses to start their day anyway.
They rise to the challenge of the day even when the challenge is overwhelming.
They see the struggle that needs to be overcome and face it…head on.
They stand in the front lines shoulder to shoulder with others just like them.
They push past the stereotypes the world uses to define MS and choose to define MS in their own terms.
They refuse to quit.
They find victory at the end of each day, even when feeling defeated.
They look MS eyeball to eyeball and say “Don’t mess with me.”
They experience pain and difficulties but push on anyway with the smallest of strength they have left.
They have learned because of being in the heat of battle that life is more than careers, fancy cars and big houses.
They experience fear, worry, doubts, and even sheds a few tears of their own, but never let those things stop them or hold them back.

Look in the mirror today because staring back at you is an MS hero! Yes, you are strong enough, you are brave enough, you are tough enough. Wipe those tears away and greet today with a smile, oh mighty MS hero!

3 replies
  1. Carla L Broadbent Rogers
    Carla L Broadbent Rogers says:

    Be well all you Heros. We never asked to join this group. but here we are. Fight the fight…stay true to yourself….keep your armor as dent free as your can and polished… Happy Mother’s Day…..and Penelope thank you for you. On ward……..

  2. Rodger Ashton-Smith
    Rodger Ashton-Smith says:

    Thanks Penelope I am trying o be one, but some things are hard to get used to. As I have written it is crazy that people who think they are helpful but they make silly mistakes that make our life harder than they think. Our son has decided to change our phone/internet server. The main problem is we have lost our landline for a month and I don’t have a mobile so being unable to get out of the house makes it difficult to contact anyone. I have lost a lot and this makes it worse than ever.

  3. Diane
    Diane says:

    I love reading your blog. It is me ….
    I thank you from the bottom of my heart for making ne know that i am not alone. Never give up……..


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