Is it possible to be thankful living with a chronic illness?

We live in a world that is prone to complaining and arguing. Think about it… everywhere you turn people are discontent with their jobs, their home, their entertainment choices, their car, their families, their life, even their health. For some people it is hard to find anything that they are content with.

They complain about their work schedule, about forgetting an appointment, about the wait time at the doctor’s office, about prices at the store, about their boss’ attitude, and even about other people always complaining. People seem to be discontent in just about everything around them.

When we meet others with multiple sclerosis we discover we have a common animosity. I went to a meeting with other MSers after I was diagnosis with MS and I felt like I was at an AA meeting…

Hi, I’m Penelope and I have MS…  then everyone spent the time complaining about their struggles. Complaining just seemed to be a part of the culture. We all complained and in our complaining we bonded together.  I noticed that bitterness and complaining was contagious. When I left I felt worse than when I arrived. This world is so twisted.

Feeling sad about this time in my life or where multiple sclerosis is taking me is just not who I am. I decided I was going to change that kind of thinking. I was going to choose to be thankful instead.

I may be worse off than I was last year at this time but I still have a lot to be thankful for… I just have to look for it in the oddest of places. Do you know what happened when I changed my way of thinking? Did my life get better? Did MS go away? Did my pain cease to exist?

NO.

I admit that sometimes it’s hard to be thankful. Sometime it becomes difficult to see anything good around you but even in the middle of difficult times, goodness is there.

I made a casserole last week and forgot to add any spices to it. It looked delicious but sure didn’t taste like it. I’m thankful that I was able to whip up a batch of seasoning to add to the dish and I didn’t have to trash it. It was actually quite tasty.

The weather here is finally cold. Freezing cold. I don’t like the cold because my muscles freeze up with it. I woke up today to a cold, cold house and a body that wouldn’t move. I’m thankful for my heated blanket, my fuzzy slippers… and hot coffee. It’s a veg out kind of day. I’m thankful for those kinds of days.

Other things I’m thankful for… good friends, a fireplace even it’s fake flames, pumpkin pie, pizza delivery, family, my own home where I can feel safe and warm, laughter, love, pain because I wouldn’t feel the joy in this world without it, a full pantry, and hope for a better tomorrow.

Here in the USA it’s thanksgiving season… don’t spend it complaining. Allow yourself time to vent and to talk about the problems you are facing but once you let it all out… let it go. Complain less, live more. Your life is what you make of it. Fill it with gratitude.

I think you will find that you are more fortunate than you realize. What are you thankful for?