A sleep deprived life

My body has a problem with sleep. Either I have an inability to fall asleep even though my body is screaming for a much needed time of rest or I fall asleep at the drop of a hat without warning. Seems contradictory doesn’t it?

I’ve been known to suddenly fall asleep when I have company over and we are in the middle of a great conversation. It can be 10 minutes into the time together, my eyes wide open and I wake up without knowledge of what happened. It’s not because the topic was boring, just my body had given up responding and snoring seemed to be the best option. I call those times sleep attacks. It’s as if I’m sleeping with my eyes open.

But then there are times when I find it difficult to fall asleep and stay asleep. That’s the insomnia part of my day. I can wake up in the morning not feeling rested no matter how much time I spent in bed. No amount of added sleep seems to be helpful.

In life today, it’s becoming harder and harder to calm the mind. We are over-stimulated and overworked, and we find less time to do the things we enjoy because of the things we have to do.

I know the feeling of exhaustion that goes deep down into your soul. It’s awful. Having experienced it yourself, your view of sleep will never be the same again. When sleep comes, it will bring with it waves of gratitude because you know how rare it is. Don’t be too proud to not talk to your doctor about it. There are some drugs that help along with some supplements. Each person will respond differently so don’t be discouraged when you find that nothing works for you.

For me, extra doses of melatonin doesn’t work neither do other sleep aids. I’ve tried them all. I seem to be lucky if I get 3 hours of sleep at night before my brain kicks into overdrive and won’t shut up.

I think my bedroom needs to be set up in my old college physics class. Nothing put my to sleep faster. How I passed the class I will never know. I have no idea what life lesson I learned spending time there.

For now, cling to hope that restful sleep will come. Be gentle with yourself and encouraged. This too shall pass. Your body just needs time to catch up.

If you feel like you’re just surviving, that is OK. You are doing enough and I have no doubt you are doing a great job at it. Know that you are not alone.

It will take you by surprise but suddenly life won’t seem like such a blur. I still wake up with a song in my heart grateful of the life I have whether sleep deprived or not. Take heart sleep is coming.

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